I'm just telling you, Xiaou, many, many times any good ideas you have a lost due to the fact that the way you express yourself really, really turns people off. I have nothing against you. I actually prefer you to someone who comes here looking for a fight, as we have seen in another thread.
But you don't give useful advice. You post ridiculous analogies that you think illustrate your point, continually you cite your expertise as an arcade manager as the reason why you are not wrong, and you berate people for their ideas. Learn some tact, man.
Again.. your only looking at things from a limited perspective.. and not honestly. Look again.
I have and Do give a LOT of positive advice. Ive plenty of evidence to prove it... Ive got many pictures Ive drawn up Specifically for others, at their requests for help. I even helped with the artwork of a persons cabinet here.
I do cite my experience, just as anyone with experience in a field would do. Thats because with 3 yrs of mechanical repairs on arcade machines in a busy arcade... filled with many old and not-so-well-kept games... you tend to learn a thing to 1000...
I give the Backing reasons as to Why and How things work. Not just the experience.
I cite analogies of non mechanical nature.. for those whom do not have very good mechanical experience and understandings... so that anyone can understand these principles... if they care to. The problem is that a lot of people have a chip on their shoulders.. and the again.. are siding with Friendships and feelings.. rather than actually absorbing knowledge. Meanwhile.. they are throwing jabs and hooks... attacking. And so then Ill eventually bite back.. but pretty much only after Ive put down all the points, and tried to maintain civility.
Yet, here again... you are pretty much telling me I am not civil, ..yet every other post.. are provoking others.
There a psychological nature that exists.. where people see things in others.. that they dislike in themselves. Maybe you should consider this when you try to interject your ideals, thoughts, and feelings into what you see me, and others as. For example... a person who gets jealous often... always sees jealousy in other peoples minds... even though many people are Well beyond that level of being... and just do not feel nor think that way. I believe its called "Projection".
Ive only berated those who have continually attacked me personally... and only after a Lot of attacks. Its not something I like to do, nor to I gain any pleasure of doing it. And pretty much every time Ive done so, has been well after Ive given reasons as to my Opinions and or non-deniable, fully re-searchable, Factual data.
All that said...
Do I know everything? Nope. Not even close.
Have I been wrong? Yup. Many many times.
Heck, I used to hate leafs... but then I was shown the reasons how and why, by some other Passionate souls... and have since tried to spread that knowledge myself.
While I dont go out of my way to be super-friendly in a text based nature.. that doesnt mean Im not a nice guy.. or that Im a total tyrant. Ive plenty of friends in Real life... and get along with many people of all walks of life, and all races.
Still, there are times when Ive misunderstood, and or have a lot of jealously pointed at me. For example... when I was training in the martial arts. One particular class was too lax, and spent too much effort talking or resting than actually working. I should have left.. but stuck around a bit longer too see if there was anything of use. Anyways... while the teacher was talking and others were doing nothing, Id stay in stance, and practice various things while awaiting actual drills and or something useful to do.
The guys there got huge chips on their shoulders. One of the youngest, who had been there for a year or more than me... thought I was a rookie.. despite me saying Id been in the arts for Years. He constantly was making mistakes, and thinking I was wrong... only to be corrected by the teacher. Yet still, little to no respect.. and a lot of bitter jealousy, along with a physical challanging nature.
My hard work ethic, me being there to actually improve my skills, and not waste my time... not only caused a rift with many of them.. but eventually, it caused them to start to work harder. Less time was spent talking.. and things started to get better.. making me stay a little while longer, rather than find somewhere else.
The one kid physically was using the wrong kinds of directional vector and with way too much force.. and to do the drill properly... it eventually caused me a really bad shoulder injury. After I repaired myself... I vowed never to let that happen again... so next time he pushed horizontally with the force of a freight train... instead of forwards as instructed.. I gave a light tug, and sent him flying to the ground in embarrassment. This of course, after Id tried to explain his errors, and after Id tried to get the teacher to correct him (Teacher lamely said that he had tied many times... ).
The Sifu had us do something like a 20 part drill... and while these guys had done it for years.. Id never done these particular things before. Id get out of class... and do them over and over, every day, a few reps here and there... wherever I was. At work, while walking places.. at home... all day and night... 7 days a week. We are talking thousands of reps here. After 2 to 3 weeks.. Id mastered every one of them, to the fullest of my bodies potentials. It of course helped that I already had over 10yrs experience in the arts... but still, most of this was just pure hardcore efforts. Efforts that none of those guys... including the Sifu, had ever, nor ever would, put in...
After the 2nd or 3rd week, we did them in class again... and I was performing them with more accuracy and power than the teacher. I have a suspicion, that this kind of ruined the guys spirit... as he had been doing this variant of the art for over 10yrs. It wasnt long after, that the guy closed up the school.
Now, I never went out of my way to be judgmental. Never said anything much in the way of judgement... however, I did express counterpoints and reasons on differences at times... most especially if there was a negative drift to things. The teacher said he was open minded to things... yet then bashed other ways, in a two faced sort of way.. as well as shutting down on well meant conversations and observations. Which normally I wouldnt even say anything at all.. but only because he claimed to be open minded...
I was just serious about my training.. and people saw what they wanted to see...
Judged me without getting to know me.
Assumed I was wrong.. and didnt know a thing...
and in the end, I proved to each of those that challenged me, that I did in fact know better, could do better... and in many of the cases.. won some of them over. Though, it was no goal of mine at that time, to be social. I simply didnt have that luxury of time.
Bruce Lee got that same kind of resentment, challenge, and jealousy when he was taking martial arts in HK. Yip Man was told that if he continue teaching Lee, most of his top dollar students would leave. As such he sent Lee to learn under another Sifu, at a different school. Though, admittedly, Lee went about of his was to make some trouble at his school.. a few times... saying it was closed, so he would have a private class with the Sifu. Its something Id never had done, nor would ever do.
And again, all that said... and I will still tell you about the guy whom made me look like a clueless fool.
As skilled as I got... there are others out there about 10x in skills. Most would never see or meet such people, as it is a real rarity... and I consider myself quite lucky for that. I too was once a non-believer... but I did have an open mind to explore, test, and try new things. Hence finding and getting to have a friendly and respectful challenge, with such people.
So, see what you want.. but the reality is quite different than what you are posting.