The only reason to shop "Black Friday" is for the "loss leader" deals that get people in the door. Most of the time the place only has a couple available with hundreds of people showing up to get them. The idea is to sell something way below cost as a means to get people in the door, and since they are already there and missed out on the deal, to just go ahead and buy other things. Otherwise, anything that isn't a "doorbuster" is probably available online for cheaper. Sure, I would have loved to get a $200 50" tv for a cab, but no way in Hell I was going out and standing in line for a small chance of getting one.
My girlfriend had to work T-day because she is in the health industry. She works at an alzheimers care facility, and they need care 24x7, and the nurses just don't do that sort of thing, so it is up to the rest of the staff to be there. Without seniority, no way she was getting out of it. The crappy thing is the shifts usually start at 2pm, and they didn't alter it for evening shift workers when they very well could have started at, say, 3:30, which would allow morning shift workers to get home in time for a T-day dinner, and evening shift workers to just have an early dinner before work. It is, IMHO, inconsiderate. And even though she works in that field, she is not a doctor or even a nurse, and didn't sign on for a 365 day per year job.
My son manages a Qdoba, and they decided to be open for Black Friday starting at 8pm on T-day, serving breakfast burritos from 8pm til 8am. From 2 am until 8 am they had 1 customer, and in total did less in sales to cover the 4 employees. Not the best business move.
Overall, I am happy as hell to no longer be married, and to not be involved with a woman who loves to shop and just has to be there for Black Friday. Even if I was, I would NEVER join her, and I don't care how much sex I would be getting for it. Besides, if you are being forced to go under the threat of no sex if you don't, I think you are with the wrong woman.
And BTW, I think people ARE speaking with their wallets, Black Friday sales are down 11% this year over last year.