Okay... I've written directly to Sanwa, Shinden, LizardLick and even asked for Digi-Key to carry these Shinden SDP-1003C-41 white/white buttons.
Yes I could order directly from ArcadeShop.de, but it's the shipping cost that's the problem. I do understand that shipping overseas is costly, but I hate paying 15$USD to ship 30$USD worth of buttons...
Yes, I also asked ArcadeShop.de if they could ship surface instead of air, let's see what they say.
I'm going to use my current SDM-20 buttons in the meantime, but it sure kills the overall Neo-Geo look of the CP.
follow-up: Sanwa: replied, doesn't have those. LizardLick, tried but couldn't find a supplier. Shinden, no reply at all. Digi-Key replied, doesn't carry those nor anything that doesn't have a black bezel. ArcadeShop replied, surface shipping cost is so close to air shipping it's not even worth mentioning.
So all in all, everybody except the original manufacturer replied.
I guess I have no choice but to order from ArcadeShop.de