Ok - lots of progress over the weekend. Some setbacks too....
I now have everything (except a keyboard - I do have an on screen trackball one at least of for now) installed so the cabinet will fold away between driver and upright.
It's rough and needs a lot of refining but it's together and it works, and that includes the new addition of the warthog setup.
I can't do an overall pic just yet until I've cleared a ton of stuff from the room but will do. Here are some others:
This is the front panel folded down from the cabinet, but not unfolded itself. You can see the stick and throttle where they are hidden. They just miss the subwoofer/amp, and the xbox360 when the door is shut.

Warthog throttle opened up:

To do this I had to modify the tightening knobs on the articulated arm. I could not get them tight enough by hand to keep it steady due to the throttle weight.
So I modified them with thermoplastic, which sets rather like nylon:


This let me tighten them enough to keep it still.
Here's the stick unfolded. It won't stay unsupported. It's just too heavy given the leverage its got but I actually prefer this as it comes to rest on your knee and it's ideal.

And here you can see it how it folds away:

A view from behind the seat.

It's a cramped cockpit for sure, but the hotas throttle tilts out of the way for driving games, and is a tolerable position for flying.
The stick arm needs more rigidity and I'm not sure the best options for that.
Everything is roungh but works and is playable. Although I broke my cronusmax (shut the cabinet with it still plugged in - crunch), and drilled through the PSU of the Logitech sound system so it now has a sony laptop brick powering it!!
Main problem now is refining it and adding clamps/stoppers/catches/magnets etc to keep things in place where they should be until you WANT them to move.