I had a birthday party, and most of my friends are women. I said that the ONE THING I wanted to do was play 18 holes of Golden Tee. Instead, they all sat around chatting and I was neglected. I scheduled another party and said if they don't want to play, don't show up, and if they do but don't play I will toss them out. They all came back, and now are obsessed with golden tee, shuffleshot, and ramp'n'roll, as well as trying to beat high scores on games they've never played. So it worked out, now everyone wants to come by all the time and game!