your wife was asking you what you want your gameroom to look like? sounds like youve got a great wife.
Its depends on what mood she is in....
Long story short...We are in the process of buying a new home...one home has a spare bedroom, the other has room for a extra building in the yard... depending on what we decide deterimes the outcome...
When we first started, she tried to have a say in the matter..."We could take the spare bedroom and make it yours and ( my little girl's) playroom " Then she tried making color choices...etc...
I got sick of it...

After using a jedi mind trick, or pimp slap...she now knows that this space will be designed out of my choosing. But now another place is coming up for bid...and i could build a workshop/gameroom...and i just need ideas...
My goal is that I want to eventually have a 3 section building...(workshop)-(arcade/bar/hometheatre)-(garage) and I want the gameroom to be a place to lounge...I figured have my mame cab and two orginal arcade cabs....Pinball machine...fooseball etc...
I tried doing a search, and i mostly only saw Hunting shack man cave....or millionare bought man caves...