One of the things that irritates me about my cabinet is trying to sit there and have a good game against my kids but we have to keep swapping positions to allow for the active player to be on stick 1.
Open your menu and adjust the controls for "this game." Don't change your general controls. Then just add the player 2 stick control in as acceptable controls for player 1. If your kids have a mean streak they can goof you up by playing with stick 2 while you're trying to whoop up on them, but other than that it sure saves a lot of people shuffling.
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