I don't mean to egg on an argument, but if you truely agree with him then you would want it in mame as an option. Keyword option.
How come? Why do would I want it as an option if I agree that it's useful sometimes for that feature? Why can't I just be content to know that if I really want any option then I can go write it myself, since the MAME source is available?
Technically, if I want MAME to say "Steve, you're the best game player in the whole entire universe." in a sexy chick voice every time I win a game, then I can because the MAME source is always available. I'm content with that.
Thankfully I don't have to write all that stuff myself (except maybe the sexy chick voice) becuase people like TheGatesOfBill and all the other MAME distro authors have taken the time to do a lot themselves, but they wouldn't be able to do anything to MAME if the source wasn't available to them.
Anyway, back to my original point, I agree with the MAME ideal of preserving arcade games as accuratly as possible becuase I'm interested in the history. That said, I like the convenience being available that if I want to skip # of frames on startup then I can, even if that's not accurately running the game.
However, it's a million times more important to preserve the games so they'll at least be available for me to play. If it weren't for that, there would be no point in the convenience hacks that skip # of frames

I hope this better clarifies what I was trying to say above.
Say what you really feel, you can't agree and disagree at the same time. 
If you're going to argue, at least argue clearly. It'll make great strides to actually helping your side of the argument. C'mon man, it's bullet #3 in my Arguing for Dummies book!
/Steve