here's exactly what happens.. i launch a table with the wrapper (either with the wrappers menu, or command line) it launches both the table and the pinmame window (occasionally the table flashes and get's entirely replaced with just the pinmame window, but rarely) i can play the table ok.. now if i hit "esc" the quit or resume window pops up (i tried holding down esc, no difference) if i hit "q" it goes to a black screen, i have to hit 'esc' again, the editor, and a window labeled "visiaul pinball launcher" (the wrapper i assume?" pops up saying "caption not found"
I absolutely got the same problem - what turns me mad that many months ago it worked all perfect, but I guess it stopped working after I had to install the never version (because of their stupid evaluation).
Now I turned back the date of the PC and installed the old Pinmame 1.20 - at least now it starts fine, but I've absolutely the same exiting problems on my cab.
Using Win98 and absolutely clueless. I'd really love it if it would work again and could run VisualPinball from my FE without any probs.

By the way, what should I get for which wrapper? Just wanna hear it again - is it PINMAME 1.20 for the wrapper v3 or VISUALPINMAME 1.20 for v3? Quite confusing, and I can't find any documentation on the Lazarus-site.
Only thing I know, the latest VisualPinmame-version doesn't work for me, I've no sound on tables like Addams Family.