Author Topic: I Still can't forget about my ex-girlfriend (Read 18007 times)

Funnel · « **on:** February 09, 2011, 04:32:20 pm »

It's been 5 months since we broke up and I still think about her... she has a new boyfriend but I sometimes think about her. Help please!!!!!!

yotsuya · « **Reply #1 on:** February 09, 2011, 04:34:43 pm »

Uh... go play Pac-Man? Stay away from Ms. Pac-Man?

knave · « **Reply #2 on:** February 09, 2011, 04:37:39 pm »

It's ok...think about her then move on. Do something for you...Pac man is always good.

pinballwizard79 · « **Reply #3 on:** February 09, 2011, 04:45:01 pm »

You need to play with a different set of jugs, maybe even several sets....Then you will feel better.

I still think about all of my ex's from time to time. Most of its guilt, some is regret but at the end of the day I wouldnt change a thing as I ended up with the right girl eventually.

There, now go chase some new skirts @ the mall or Hooters (depending on your age).

PW79

RayB · « **Reply #4 on:** February 09, 2011, 04:51:17 pm »

Getting laid is the best cure for that.

Funnel · « **Reply #5 on:** February 09, 2011, 05:01:23 pm »

It's just that sometimes she pops on my mind. I'm in college and still can't get rid of her. pinballjim Shut up!!!! Heheheeh Dale un beso al joven.

Donkbaca · « **Reply #6 on:** February 09, 2011, 05:05:49 pm »

College! That easy.

Have a meaningless one night stand. Feel guilty about it. The guilt will supplant thoughts of the ex. Have another meaningless one night stand to get over the last one. Realize that didn't work so swear off women and grow a beard. Quickly realize chicks dig beards, give up the swearing off women bit. Shave said beard in a "new me" cleansing sort of ritual. The chick that sticks around likes you for you, and not you for the beard is your new girlfriend.

That is where I would start....

garwil · « **Reply #7 on:** February 09, 2011, 05:15:29 pm »

Stop trying to not think about her! If I told you to stop thinking about elephants what's the first thing you think of?

Also, spend some time for yourself. Be selfish! Take up a new hobby, spend a bit of time on some of your neglected hobbies, hang out with friends, join a gym. In fact, joining (and attending) a gym is probably the best thing to do, the exercise will make you happy and you get to perve on chicks in Lycra.

It's perfectly normal to think about ex's unless it's affecting your daily life. If it's not, and you're still fairly happy and getting on with business as usual, I doubt you have anything to worry about!

Bootay · « **Reply #8 on:** February 09, 2011, 05:52:58 pm »

Start playing EverQuest or Worlds of Warcraft...

ChadTower · « **Reply #9 on:** February 09, 2011, 05:57:50 pm »

Why would he feel guilty about a one night stand if he doesn't have a girlfriend? That's when you're supposed to have them.

Donkbaca · « **Reply #10 on:** February 09, 2011, 06:02:33 pm »

Doesn't matter, the important thing is that he does it and grows a beard

RayB · « **Reply #11 on:** February 09, 2011, 10:37:23 pm »

From (500) Days of Summer
(yeah make fun of me all you want, I liked that movie)

Girl to her brother who can't get over girl:
"I think you're just remembering the good stuff. Next time you look back, I, uh, I really think you should look again."

Vanguard · « **Reply #12 on:** February 09, 2011, 10:48:26 pm »

Quote from: Funnel on February 09, 2011, 04:32:20 pm

It's been 5 months since we broke up and I still think about her... she has a new boyfriend but I sometimes think about her. Help please!!!!!!

leapinlew · « **Reply #13 on:** February 09, 2011, 11:57:23 pm »

Have you done this:

Why did she break up with you?

shmokes · « **Reply #14 on:** February 10, 2011, 03:01:19 am »

Ya gotta not be so helpless. You can't be the type of person who is still, after five months, pining for this girl who has clearly moved on if you want girls (including this one) to be attracted to you. This girl isn't that special. There are literally billions of girls in the world, and millions right in your own state. Think about her all you want, like you think about any good memories. But stop wallowing. She's just an ex girlfriend. I have a bunch and most of them mean a lot to me. They represent important periods of my life and I was madly in love with most of them.

But, ---steaming pile of meadow muffin---, none of them compare to my wife. And I'd havenever found her if I was all broken up and crying about wanting to be back with some other girl. I don't know how long this relationship was. The longer it was and the bigger a part of your daily life she had become, the bigger the hole her absence will leave in you. But you just gotta fill it up with other ---steaming pile of meadow muffin--- -- and not stupid I-kinda-feel-like-being-alone kind of ---steaming pile of meadow muffin---. Just live your life. There's something absurd and maybe megalomaniacal about behaving as though there is this one special person in this world who is perfect for you. She aint that special. If there did happen to be that ONE person, the chances of the two of you happening to meet are infintessimally small.

In short, man up. It's been five months and it's not like you have kids with this girl. It's time to move on.

AcidArmitage · « **Reply #15 on:** February 10, 2011, 09:59:23 am »

best way to get over somebody is to get under another

seriously though, start acting like you're hot ---steaming pile of meadow muffin--- and you'll be too "busy" to think about the previous

LLUncoolJ · « **Reply #16 on:** February 10, 2011, 11:21:03 am »

boo ---smurfing--- hoo...I'll be married 10 years next month. 10 years!!!!! Dated and engaged to her for 2 years before. That's almost 12 years of having sex with 1 freaking chick. Try that on for a while, then cry to me. You'll be thinking back to this time fondly.

Rando · « **Reply #17 on:** February 10, 2011, 11:31:57 am »

Lol,
This is a funny thread.

But dude, you're in College! This was 5 months ago? You're in COLLEGE! Go have some fun man. Short flings aren't for everybody, and they can sometimes cause some touble, so tread carefully and "protect" yourself as needed. But College is the easiest place to get back in the game. Hit the gym (not to hit on chicks, just work on yourself), tag along with friends (if you and a girl share mutual friends, you've each passed a basic sanity test), change seats each week and ask the girl next to you what they covered last class, etc. Or better yet, join a random club or organization and there are probably designated peope to help integrate the newbies, flirt with them. Not to date necessarily, but just chat up the opposite sex, they become curious when you don't outright hit on them.

Just clean yourself up and walk tall my man. If your end goal is still to get her interested in you again, the best way to do that is move on.

ChadTower · « **Reply #18 on:** February 10, 2011, 12:02:50 pm »

That's good advice. If you can't get laid in college you're never going to get laid post college.

Donkbaca · « **Reply #19 on:** February 10, 2011, 12:06:28 pm »

not true, the immediate good job, single, post college scene is good for getting laid.

Do you go to like a men's college or something? The college I went to had so many hot chicks, it wasn't even fair, and 5 months is like 50 parties past break up. There surely must be something else that has caught your eye. Just grow a beard and go for it.

ChadTower · « **Reply #20 on:** February 10, 2011, 12:48:24 pm »

Quote from: Donkbaca on February 10, 2011, 12:06:28 pm

not true, the immediate good job, single, post college scene is good for getting laid.

Not if you didn't have the skills to get laid when everyone is drunk in one building with bedrooms all in a line.

Funnel · « **Reply #21 on:** February 10, 2011, 01:08:23 pm »

Puerto Rican women are hot! Even pinballjim knows that.

CCM · « **Reply #22 on:** February 10, 2011, 01:11:44 pm »

Quote from: Rando on February 10, 2011, 11:31:57 am

But dude, you're in College! This was 5 months ago? You're in COLLEGE! Go have some fun man.

+100000000

JMB · « **Reply #23 on:** February 10, 2011, 01:34:41 pm »

Quote from: ChadTower on February 10, 2011, 12:48:24 pm

Quote from: Donkbaca on February 10, 2011, 12:06:28 pm
not true, the immediate good job, single, post college scene is good for getting laid.

Not if you didn't have the skills to get laid when everyone is drunk in one building with bedrooms all in a line.

Have you seen how many divorced women over 35 there are? Getting laid has never been easier!

ChadTower · « **Reply #24 on:** February 10, 2011, 01:41:50 pm »

They expect you to be able to do basic things like pay for dinner and drive a car that you own yourself. None of that is required in college.

Mikezilla · « **Reply #25 on:** February 10, 2011, 03:41:30 pm »

I was a big fan of fellatio in college. Im kind of a germ-a-phobe so if I was in college now I would probably be scared. Not a fan of the AIDS. Everyone says "just use condoms" and Im like "yeah thats fine and all, but these magnums keep breaking".

Seriously though, have a scare of getting a girl pregnant. After a one night stand. At a friends family reunion.

I dont know why I even said that, has nothing to do with the thread, but thought I would share.

Donkbaca · « **Reply #26 on:** February 10, 2011, 03:50:36 pm »

Mikezilla, I have no idea why you said that either

ChadTower · « **Reply #27 on:** February 10, 2011, 03:55:54 pm »

Quote from: Mikezilla on February 10, 2011, 03:41:30 pm

I was a big fan of fellatio in college. Im kind of a germ-a-phobe so if I was in college now I would probably be scared. Not a fan of the AIDS. Everyone says "just use condoms" and Im like "yeah thats fine and all, but these magnums keep breaking".

Well the studies do support that if all those dudes were wearing condoms you should be just fine.

VanillaGorilla · « **Reply #28 on:** February 10, 2011, 04:30:54 pm »

Mikezilla · « **Reply #29 on:** February 10, 2011, 04:38:32 pm »

Quote from: Donkbaca on February 10, 2011, 03:50:36 pm

Mikezilla, I have no idea why you said that either

Yours was funny too Chad.

Thenasty · « **Reply #30 on:** February 10, 2011, 05:04:40 pm »

this should do it....

ark_ader · « **Reply #31 on:** February 10, 2011, 06:32:59 pm »

Go find her new boyfriend and brag that you banged her the other day, or something like that.

Go mess with his head. It will make you feel better and might turn the tables.

Call her apartment and when he answers hang up. Things like that.

Or if he has a gun you can try the adult method.

pinballwizard79 · « **Reply #32 on:** February 10, 2011, 07:08:43 pm »

I remember being your age & going to a strip club with a half dozen 18-20 year old Kappa Delta's on disco biscuits (Ladies & gentlemen put your hands together for Ssssssinnamon).

Now I spend my time on arcade forums & have 11 years of the same box

To you I say enjoy being young & single

"STAY AS LONG AS YOU CAAAAAAN, CHERISH IT"

ChadTower · « **Reply #33 on:** February 10, 2011, 07:24:58 pm »

Quote from: pinballjim on February 10, 2011, 05:19:38 pm

That's about your typical 31 year old Puerto Rican woman.

Bus stop woman is not hairy enough for that.

abispac · « **Reply #34 on:** February 10, 2011, 09:42:36 pm »

you need to start master bating....

jamesjones626 · « **Reply #35 on:** February 10, 2011, 11:12:23 pm »

any time you think about her, do this................ 10 sets of 15 squats, 10 pushups, and 5 pullups. this will make you feel like thinking of your ex is a punishment, and it will get your ass in shape.

shmokes · « **Reply #36 on:** February 11, 2011, 12:54:17 am »

Quote from: Mikezilla on February 10, 2011, 03:41:30 pm

I was a big fan of fellatio in college.

It doesn't necessarily mean you're gay. A lot of people experiment when they're in college.

shmokes · « **Reply #37 on:** February 11, 2011, 11:03:21 am »

weak sauce

ChadTower · « **Reply #38 on:** February 11, 2011, 11:05:27 am »

Seriously, there was a "you keep leaving for new schools" or even a France joke in there too.

shmokes · « **Reply #39 on:** February 11, 2011, 11:06:57 am »

I hope they were funny. Let me know if you find them.


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