you could always temporarly stick a pci video card in it, till you pick get a nicer PCI-E
would at least give you access to the system for testing.
setup looks good, that chip you have is running at 2.8ghz with a FSB of 266 (quad pumped to 1066), a multiplier of 10.5
usually intel multiplier locks their chips..
ergo the OC will come in the form of a faster FSB, you should be able to quickly over clock it to 333mhz bus (quad pumped to 1333) @ 10.5 = 3.5hz
relatively easy, infact i'd bet you would'nt have to pump any voltage, heck you might even be able to drop the voltage a bit.
i have a ep45 board similar to the one you got, yours is based on p43 express chipset, mines p45, both are pretty much the same thing.. although you "might" hit a fsb wall of 400ish (quad pumped 1600mhz).. but thats still a lot of room
for testing i suggest a program called "intel burn test"
and run it for 10 cycles every time you make an adjustment while over clocking.
once you got to a speed you're happy with i suggest you run it for at least 100 cycles.
it will take a few hours.
WARNING if you do not have a good aftermarket heat sink do not run that program.. it will push your processor to the max and it will heat up RAPIDLY.
infact no program out there i've seen can push a processor harder then intel burn test, not even prime95, so this is really a worse case scenario.. not only is the test good at fishing out buggy processors but it will also give you a WORSE case scenario temperature wise, since i've yet to play a game or run a application that could heat the cpu as much as IBT.
then again if you are overclocking you should already have a aftermarket to start with..
i suggest you keep your eye on the processors temperature the first 10-20 mins of running the program.. to see what it's gonna max out at.. you should be ok up to about 60c, iirc max operating temperature on that chip is 70c so i would'nt let it get above 65 just for a margin of safety.
you can use the supplied utility for temperature or you can get another program i use core temp, and CPUID HWmonitor.
remember when overclocking to go slow, make only 1 adjustment at a time.. it might take a few days to pound out a 100% stable OC that you are happy with.. especially if you push it to the max.
also it's handy to write down your changes so you can keep track.
good luck mate.