I think Bob has already told you how to wire it, but I know this can be a little scary.
Looks like from the info you have given us that the relay is rated for 250 volts AC or 28 volts DC. This is for the contacts. Contacts are rated for different currents at AC and DC because DC makes a bigger arc (spark) when the contacts open.
Since you are using 250 volts, here is how I would wire it (Provided that symbols on your relay match what Bob posted):
Live wire from supply to pin 1
Live wire to your power strip to pin 3
Neutral wire from the supply to pin 8.
Neutral wire to the power strip on pin 6.
If the neutral wire really is neutral on your system, then you don not have to switch it with the relay, but it wont hurt a thing to switch it.
The ground (or earth) wires will not connect to the relay at all, tie the one from the supply directly to the one to the power strip.
Use wire nuts or solder the ground wires together. Use heat shrink tubing or good tape to insulate the junction.
The 12 volts from the computer will tie to pins 2 and 7. If you are using a diode then it will also tie to pins 2 and 7. Make sure the band on the diode ties to the same terminal as the yellow wire from the computer.
If the relay has a + and - signs on pins 2 and 7, then yellow ties to + and black ties to -.
If these two pins are not marked + and - then it shouldnt matter. But it does matter on the diode. Band on diode goes to +. Hooking the diode backwards will cause a short circuit.