nice idea!
I am right at this point now, trying to figure out what relay I needed to buy to have the mobo turn on the monitor, and you give me this idea for a power button!
So about the relay: 12V coil (obviously), but is it a DPDT? The picture almost looks like a 4PDT. Anyway, do you have problems with oscillations of the coil? Power pops when the coil field breaks down?
Also, is that terminal block a relay socket or is it part of the relay? Can you post the relay part #?
I am also interested in delaying the power-on (and off) of the speakers because the monitor can make a pretty loud pop in the speakers. I think I'm going to make an RC charging circuit and a comparator for this but I'm throwing it out there for comments. Time delay relays are silly expensive.
Cheers,
MRH