I moved the m2emulator folder to the mame folder...no help
No, I just wanted to make sure that the m2emulator folder and the mame folder are subfolders that are side by side, so to speak.  For example, I have a folder called "emulators".  In that folder is my m2emulator folder *and* my mame folder.  It doesn't have to be this way, but that's the way it needs to be unless a change is made to the batch file.
I can't even complete question number 1...can you spell that out for me!!
Providing you have your folders set up as outlined as above:
Click START, then click RUN
Type CMD, then click OK
In the black window, type the following:
C: <ENTER>
CD \emulators\m2emulator <ENTER>
closemul emulator.exe daytonaWhat error if any do you get?
how do I post screen shots!!
Not sure if you're asking how to create a screenshot or how to attach one into this forum.
1)  Bring up the Mala option screen that you want.
2)  Press PrintScreen
3)  Click Programs>Accessories>Paint
4)  Click Edit>Paste
5)  If you know how, crop out all of the screen shot accept for the Mala options window
6)  Save the file.
7)  When posting a reply, choose Additional Options....
8 )  Browse for the attachment that you saved in the Paint program.