I got an email from Ricky Martin (Twistygrip dude, yes, that's his name!). He said he knows about these issues, he's been watching this thread. He's making a cutaway pic. But since he can only do this stuff on weekends it might take some time.
Interesting, I e-mailed TwistyGrip a week ago, before I started the thread and still have heard no response. I'd like to discuss these issues with him.
Today's update, I visited Lowe's again last night - They only sell ABS in 1.5 inch diameters, so I don't think I can find the 1-1/4 inch ABS locally. Look like white handles for me

(Although it doesn't bother me that much).
Also, I checked the 1.5-inch male and female adapters again. There is a little less than 5/8 of clearance on with the adapter tightened all the way down, but there is only a couple of threads more than 3/4 inch TOTAL clearance. The adapter would catch a couple of threads and would mount on some 1x10, 1x3, etc. boards, but not all (3/4 is kinda a guideline for 1x? boards). It would not mount on a 1/2-inch board. I didn't try but 5/8 MDF should work well or I might end up routing (Dremeling) out the back of the 1x10. Problem is you need to take a very small amount off, (1/16 to 3/16 would help, but 1/4 is too much). OTOH, the male adapter has a wide flat flange so if you took too much off I think you could just glue it on and it would still work.
Also, Lowe's carry PE pipe (black Sil-O-Flex) in 1/2, 3/4, and 1-inch diameters. Could replace some of the yoke parts if you want a black one.
Home Depot does not carry the ABS fittings. I need to check their PVC fittings as they carry a different brand which might work better.