I FINALLY found a good cable to work with a sinister 49 way controller!
I got Daves 49way controller (works GREAT!) but I couldn't find any way to neatly hack it. I couldn't find any cable ends that fit.
Well.. I finally took it in the basement and started looking at all the outdated crap... and I found it!
Find an old pre-atx power supply and cut off the power -> the motherboard. Both sides (there where two) fit PERFECT!
Right number of pins!
Perfect size!
and the wire works great with Daves board.
Anyway, I now have a VERY nice and clean looking cable job... without crimping a thing!