Hello @jeremymtc,
Apologies for replying to a old thread but I also have an Alienware Alpha R1 which I'm looking to use in a bartop arcade.
Thank you for identifying the power sw pins on the motherboard.
Using the power sw pins you identified, I'm able to power on the computer just fine, but unable to power off the computer using the same switch (arcade button). However, if I plug back in the original switch, the computer power off just fine.
Any ideas? Did you have a similar issue? Thank you.