I have never had a problem with this before dealing with the optiplexes. This button is soldered on to that little breakout board, so there's no way for guys with low end soldering skills to tap in there. So the monkey simple hack has to be between the board and the mobo. When I did that, I only cut 2 wires and added the button. It totally works and turns on the PC. But something in the system isn't happy with it and I have the error, requiring a keypress to continue.
Mala has the option to shutdown windows upon exit, which makes the power thing doable, but I'd still rather have a button if possible. I am about to use an optiplex on another project. If I am missing something, I would appreciate the training you think the monkey had, so that I can get between the breakout board and the mobo without this error. At the moment I plan on using the power solution.