Don't worry about it.  Most of the "long time members" of this site are grumpy old men.  They whine about everything but give good advice, if they are in a good mood, which coincides with getting an extra viagra pill in their monthly supply.
It's unfortunate you feel that way -- but I understand your sentiment. 
I wouldn't say "most" however. Some, certainly.  A 
very vocal minority, yes.  
Most of us are just old men, without the grumpy.
... Of course, I haven't been in the "Politics n' Religion" board in a very, very long time... so I could be very, very wrong about that.