Don't worry about it. Most of the "long time members" of this site are grumpy old men. They whine about everything but give good advice, if they are in a good mood, which coincides with getting an extra viagra pill in their monthly supply.
It's unfortunate you feel that way -- but I understand your sentiment.
I wouldn't say "most" however. Some, certainly. A
very vocal minority, yes.
Most of us are just old men, without the grumpy.
... Of course, I haven't been in the "Politics n' Religion" board in a very, very long time... so I could be very, very wrong about that.