Thanks! So I need the board too and if these are the same as yours, they are pretty much going to stayed pinned at the top then (when the music is loud) right?
Do you think that I could repurpose the drive-in speaker potentiometer for the radio and use it to control the volume via an external dial? I would think that I need to wire both speakers through it then?...
Yeah, you'll have to have a driver board, and if it's like the one I got, it'll reflect the volume of the sound level, so if you tend to vary the volume, you'll find the meters will not dance quite as much as you might like. After all, the only reason for putting meters in this kind of unit is for the bling of some dancing meters

You might try looking around for dynamically adjusting VUMeter boards. Seems like there was a kit sold with those VUMeter tubes that indicated that it varied the level reading based on the level so you always got activity in the tubes. If there's a way to hook that kind of board up to a "normal" vumeter, I'm not sure.
The easiest way around this whole problem is to
1) set the volume in windows to max.
2) get an audio Y splitter cable
3) run one end to you VUMeter board to drive the meters
4) run the other end to an amp with an external volume control
The only snag with that, is that most JUkebox apps have an onscreen volume adjustment, but that will only adjust the Windows volume, which in turn adjusts the volume level coming out the audio out jacks, so your VUMeter sees a volume adjusted signal, which is what you don't want.