After weighing all of the options (and thank you all for weighing in on this topic), I've decided to go with the simplest route - i.e. with Useless Eater's suggestion.
If I had an older PC or the switch on my new PC was easy to modify, I would definitely go that route with a smartstrip. However, I really don't want to TOUCH this PC because it may be re-purposed in the future - never know. I also spoke to an electrician friend of mine and told him about the chosen idea and he said "simple" - and gave me a little more feedback.
So, here's the plan:
Purchase:
- appliance replacement cord (rated 15A) - Home Depot
- surge protector/power strip - cut the plug off (will be wired to switch on cab)
- toggle switch with mounting box (I'm getting the one that lights RED when power is ON)
- metal box for mounting appliance cord to cabinet (this is just a "crimp" to hold the cord in place at the bottom back of the cab)
So, here's the flow:
WALL OUTLET to CAB to TOGGLE SWITCH(bottom, back, crimped inside metal box to that it won't slide out), no electrical connection here - just passing thru to SWITCH
SWITCH - wire appliance cord to the "feed" part of the switch (like in a home), wire cut end of power strip to the switch also
SWITCH TO POWER STRIP - self explanatory (cut plug end of power strip off and wire to the switch)
All components will be plugged into the power strip.
FOR POWER UP:
- turn ON power at toggle switch on cab
- change BIOS settings on PC to power up when power is applied
- boot into my FE
FOR POWER DOWN:
- "SHUTDOWN" arcade button shuts down the FE, FE programmed to exit FE and shutdown windows (PC powers off)
- turn OFF power at toggle switch on cab
You know, this solution seems VERY simple and is the least intrusive to any other components (modifying the marquee light switch, PC power button/motherboard) and it meets my requirements to NOT unbox the PC.
I never would have arrived at this point without your unselfish help and comments - THANK YOU.
Now, the only question is WHERE to put the toggle switch (more hidden, harder to access OR less hidden, easier to access). And, where to put the "SHUTDOWN" arcade button. My opinion is the following:
TOGGLE SWITCH: TOP BACK of CAB near one side or the other - just reach back and flick it on (but you won't see the red light turn on, but no biggie). In this case, it won't inadvertently be turned off. Or, it could go on the top part of the cab toward the back. I think if it is anywhere else, people might "play with it".

SHUTDOWN BUTTON: this is harder. I have an admin panel (like the Woody), but putting it here might cause a player (guest) to hit that button - not probably on accident, but to mess with someone else. But it would be very accessible there. I think if I had to make the decision today, I'd place it behind the marquee on top of the cab - easy to access, but out of the way enough.
Inputs are welcome...
Cheers,
edub