I have an AHK script that runs at login. Here's the pertinent details.
;Start WinLIRC
Run, C:\Emu\WinLIRC\winlirc.exe
;Turn on TV
Run, c:\emu\winlirc\transmit JVC_AV-27230 PowerOn 9
sleep, 3000
;Switch to Video-1
Run, c:\emu\winlirc\transmit JVC_AV-27230 Video-1 9
sleep, 1000
This is not a perfect solution, but it works pretty well. The problem I have is that sometimes the TV comes on but doesn't change to video1. Sometimes it doesn't turn on, but that's pretty rare. If I had a wired method, I would DEFINITELY go that way!
Good luck.