I couldn't be my attitude, since I was sarcastic and didn't make any statements geared toward belittling anyone as you did.
You might want to take a hard look in the mirror there. No statements belittling, eh? Let's review:
I agree people will tend to elaborate, but when their answers don't address the actual question it become a waste of time.
So, people take the time out to answer your question, and since your question involves more than just a yes or no, when it doesn't match exactly what you are looking for, it's a waste of time? You know what - you're absolutely right; however it's a waste of the person answering your question's time to be more specific.
Don't get your panties in an uproar.
Not belittling, however insulting.
no matter how many times I ask for a pointer to the specific harness(or harnesses) I need in this thread I get responses that have nothing to do with that question. So I might as well move on.
Here's where the attitude comes in. And by the way, your question was answered, you just didn't understand the answer. However, it was answered in the context of BYOAC - (that stands for Build Your Own Arcade Controls, in case you weren't aware). I guess you thought you were on PIYAC - Plug in Your Arcade Controls.
All the other info I didn't ask about was unnecessary.
More attitude...
You see the problem here is that you post asking for help, it is offered, and suddenly you respond as if you know it all, and these people are wasting your time with "unnecessary information" and not answering the question you asked.