great .. something *I* can help with !!! I'm the batch file MASTER

I'm going to assume you are using windows XP or later for this ...
modify this to your needs (ie the xpadder.exe filename I guessed) and save as batchfile.cmd :
@echo off
taskkill xpadder.exe /f
c:
cd \games\game1
start game.exe
exit
notes :
-taskkill.exe only exists on XP and later, i dont know what xpadder executable name is, but change this to your needs
-I recommend putting the lines 'c:' and 'cd .....blah' in the batch file to make sure the game will start from its own folder, or it might fail to run properly (as it cannot find the rest of the files)
-using START will make sure the batch file continues to the next line without waiting for the game to end
-the exit command is not really necesarry, but it wont do any harm and will make 100% sure the batch file closes while the game runs
good luck !