I've had lots of orders (about 30) from the US come over and so far I've had 0 loss. Europe is not a zillion miles away, it's about 7 hours flying from the US east coast. Doesn't make much difference if it's in airmail from east to west coast or to here !!
Shipping times is usually around a week. I've ordered from Bob Roberts,
www.Aracadeshop.com,
www.cinelabs.com,
www.tntamusments.com,
www.t-molding.com,
www.thisoldgame.com,www.mamemarquees.com,
www.groovygamegear.com and I probably forgot some, plus several e-bay sellers.
All shipping times around a week, no problems (Except Todd from Tnt one time accidently shipped it surface mail, took about a month, but it arrived safely.)
I wouldn't care for insurance on a low-value item like that. I've never had it insured, and it always arrived. USPS is a very safe way to send stuff to Europe.
Customs fees a headache ? Who has to worry about that, not the sender ! All you have to do is indicate "gift" on the little green form and a value of about 20 bucks....no problems at all for you.
But you're right. Everyone outside of the US are all scammers sending fake money orders. Man, I don't even know how to issue a REAL money order. I use PayPal or Visa, pretty safe.
But hey, it's your call in the end