Let me clarify as well, I do not think the Spear's mom is a "bad parent" because her daughter got pregnant. Plenty of teens, brought up by good parents are wont to do what teens do, ie: get their freak on.
I do think, however, that any parent who buys into this abstinence only bs is a bad parent because they refuse to acknowledge the risks their teens face with unprotected sex. It's like believing that driver's ed will cause the kid to get into more accidents.
