Dude, don't tell me you forgot about your own post.

The one I am currently using is Yame. It works great. You can also play CD games with it. There's only 2 little problems:
1. You can only exit using Alt+F4 which shouldn't be a problem if you're using joytokey or xpadder.
2. Roms need to be unzipped.
Well the solution is Closemul
1. You can map ESC as the exit key
2. Closemul unzips the rom for you
I included everything including closemul and the mamewah ini files. Closemul is already set up to exit with ESC just make sure it's in the same folder as Yame. 7za.exe is what is used to unzip the roms. (also has to be in the same folder)
Your mamewah ini file has to point to closemul.exe instead of yame.exe that's how it does it's magic. Just check the mamewah ini files to see what I mean.
DivShare File - Turbo_Grafx_16_emulator_+_Mamewah_ini_fil.zip