and also most cars are only intended to be owned for 5 years or so. you have been unlucky with fuel pumps but its not a common fault. once its not new its not the original owners problem anymore. unfortunately of course that means the next person who buys it will have to sort those things out. in the old days it was no big deal for most maintenance problems. so i guess the modern second-hand car buyer has to bear in mind that it tends to cost more to repair nowadays and that there is less they are able to do easily themselves.
until i can buy a new car again im going for very old (relatively) because i can fix almost anything on it in the driveway. probably a 70s or early 80s escort or corolla. then when i can ill play the big corporations game and buy a new car every 5 years or so...
I've had good luck with cars because I maintain them well, I've done a lot of fuel pumps because I've owned a lot of cars, and more than my fair share of beaters. I usually still have a couple of beaters around, but I also have one relatively new and one brand new pickup. One of the beaters is going to get replaced with a mid-90's Jeep Wrangler. That is a truck I know that tends to be less reliable than the norm, but I love them so it's worth it.
The thing I don't like with the cars you're considering is that they have a lot of emissions equipment on them, but they're also carbuerated. This usually means a mess of vacuum lines and valves that can get to be a pain in the butt. I had an 81 Escort that someone practically gave me because they couldn't get it to idle. It was a stick, so it required a veritable tap dance on the pedals to keep it going and not roll into the car behind you at a light.

The problem ended up being a cracked 4 leg vacuum "T" back near the firewall. It was a bear to track down because the hissing was faint and sounded like it was coming from everywhere. When I found and fixed that, the car ran like a champ.
I sold it for more than I paid for it after driving it for two years.
Ask anyone that's worked on a twin carb Prelude about frustration. Honda's could be finicky beasts before fuel injection!
