Drew,
They quit listening a long time ago. It's the typical liberal method. If you disagree with any of them they always follow a certain pattern.
1) They insult your intelligence. Like your opinion isn't as learned as theirs.
2) If that doesn't work, they then question your motives and paint you as evil.
3) The truth is always relative. It doesn't matter what actually happened, only their version of what the "facts" are. Their perspective is always more probing and concise, without question.
4) If for some reason you can gain a foot hold, they become unhinged and end up calling names and throw around analogies of Hitler.
It's always the same.
The only way to end this with them is to smile and agree. After all, they know better than we do because they are more intelligent. Just ask them, they will tell you.

But now it's My turn -
Dexter - Why do you even try?
Patrickl - What are you hiding over there? Do you have children in prisons being tortured? Do you murder people daily on a whim? Do you have long term plans to invade other countries? Have you developed a sophisticated WMD system to attack your own Moroccan population? If so, are there 12 years of UN resolutions hanging over your head ?
Mr.C -
Clinton didn't act because of his Monica scandal. He didn't have the political power or "capital" to convice the Republicans he could do it in his Lame duck years.
Clinton supported the war didn't he?
The current quagmire
Ok Mr. History buff, what happened after the fall of the Axis powers and how long did we clean up there? Even in the civil war there were similar acts, "The South shall rise again" sound familiar?
It irritates me that nobody can truly appreciate the absolute brilliance of the Iraq War. We let these governments fester for 30 years and fall into corruption and religious zealots spawn terrorists to kill Israel.
My theory is that Carter started this. He didn't back the Shaw of Iran and showed these Muslims weakness in his failed attempt at rescuing the US ambassadors. Not only that, he gave credibility to Arafat, Bad Mistake.
Next we have Reagan that only made one or two missile drops and actually supported Saddam. He also gave birth to OBL by backing him against the Russians. Bad Mistake.
Next we have Bush 1 that did NOTHING to clear this up. By the time it got to Clinton, these people had twisted their victories into somekind of mission from God. Clinton was so handicapped most of his administration with Whitewater and Monica and Waco and the Cole and the first tower bombing and of course, our own domestic terrorists he couldn't point his attention outward that far. Black hawk down showed how much we could commit.
So we are weak and puny to these guys. We were spoiled and the biggest target they could find to show their might without reprisals.
Bush comes in wanting to adjust Social Security and shore up the economy from a fall, an BAM. OBL and his minions are all over us. We let them build up until they are a force. Our lax attitude to the Middle East has let these people run wild in our country.
Afghanistan is riddled and destroyed because of the lack of US and international action to rebuild it after the Russian Vietnam there. Nobody wants it but OBL finds a safehaven and a place to build his Muslim Utopia.
When we are hit, we are totally pissed. Nobody hits the US like that, nobody. Even Mr.C was with Bush on that war.
Bush wins the war that even the Romans couldn't win. Russia tried for years to subdue that country and we did it in days.
But we still have Saddam. He's across the border. He is getting out of the box by selling oil to everybody that has a vote in the UN. France and Russia are backing him because he's using his countries resources to pay them off. They are into him for Billions, and there is more comming. Soon he'll be out of the UN sanctions and back into power. Bush 1's gamble to let his own people kill him failed miserably.
He's gonna get out, and there is no telling what he will do. Go after Iran and start a nuclear war. Recapture Kuwait. Pakistan is wavering on total anarchy, with atomic bombs pointed at India. They are poor in Pakistan and corrupt. Saddam is sitting on an endless fortune. Plus he has his legacy, his two maniacal sons. It's a recipe for the beginning of Armageddon.
So Bush has the pieces in place to sweep forward. The international community agrees Saddam has WMD, as I recall there were very few naysayers at the time. Bush has a choice, retract and stop the military action like is father did, or wipe him out before he gets to the postion of power he would have by now. Retract and he risks the reported WMD will be transfered to the terrorists via Saddam or delivered personally by Saddam. Advance and he destroys a madman.
If Saddam had bribed enough people and got out of the UN sanctions, he would have bought more and more equipment from France and Russia. As a full partner in the international community he would have retooled his Army, which prior to GW1 was the 4th largest in the world.
Instead W decides to take care of this while has the chance. His advisors are confident that we can and will remove Saddam and the resistance will be small. We'll clean it up and be out of there like we did in Afghanistan.
The best and probably planned outcome - create a stable government in Afghanistan, Pakistan, Turkey, and Iraq. Setup a band of democracies through the middle of the Middle East and isolate Lybia, Syria and Iran.
The gamble stabilizes the political situations there for a generation and removes any Saddam made barriers to peace in Israel and the Palestinians.
Freaking Brilliant boys. He saved the world and you can't see it. You can't appreciate it because the vision is so broad and breathtaking that he should have his face carved on Mount Rushmore.
Instead you think we should have approached the whole thing with negotiation and police actions. Well, Rocky said it best to Bullwinkle:
"ah that trick never works"
So we didn't get out of there unscathed like we have prior to this. Iran and Syria through curves to us by sending in militia to destabalize the area and drive us out. They all had a DVD of "Black Hawk Down" as a guideline (Thank you Mr. Clinton).
We lost a lot of good men. Men I admire and was once one of about 15 and 20 years ago. I know people over there and they are proud to be able to support us.
Bush may have been wrong about the aftermath. The Dems supported him just to give him enough rope to hang himself hoping it would be a "quagmire" so they could win the next election. (Remember Kerry's speaches at the time Mr. C? He supported the war too.) The Republicans had to fall in line.
10 years from now I hope that we will look back and see this as a bold vision that paid off. I hope that you are all wrong and "myopic" in your assesment of the situation.
That's my view of it. Freaking Brilliant. Where am I wrong?