well... lets not get too upset...
next time.... don't bid until the last minute...
and snipe it back with a high amount then....

but if you already bid over your max twice...
how far do you think you will go ??....
eventually... you MIGHT outbid that guy... but the monitor might not be worth it anymore....
I think in this case... ebay saved you from just want to win the bidding war with that other guy....
anyway... that's how this bidding game is....
so... I personally would consider this "fair play"...
but that's also why I never buy anything from ebay....