Hi stiegi,
I think you're creating a complicated problem out of something that is very simple. The installation process is the same one that what you did for the x550. If you want the frequency change to happen right after rebooting what you have to do is to set your desktop to 640x480 already before installing the driver. This way once you restart the system the new 640x480 interlaced mode will get active, because this modeline is always defined as 15 kHz by default to make this possible. Anyway your LCD won't break if you feed it with 15 kHz, it will just display an out of sync message.
As for the HD audio driver, you definitely need to install it if it's not installed already. You DO NOT need the whole video card driver package for that. Just grab the proper audio package from Realtek (probably).
it is better if I use the dvi port with vga adapter?
Answered above.