Thanks everyone. Sorry for acting like a teenage girl. Bad way to start on any forum. I have had a bad couple days and this was no way to present my weecade. Like I have stated before I have let this thing become my version of Frankenstein's monster and I just needed to walk away for a couple of days.
I had a nice dinner with my wife last night and I'm ready to go at again.
@AGarv The sad thing was I used a drill press. The other sad thing was the fact that I used the wrong template from slagcoin.com and my buttons were too close together. This lead me to "free handing" the button holes a second time which lead to them being really messed up. So instead of fixing it a third time I am going to start fresh with this tutorial
http://forum.arcadecontrols.com/index.php/topic,51235.0.html and with this bad boy from amazon for my joystick holes.
http://www.amazon.com/MLCS-9674-Brass-Template-Guide/dp/B000NDPS4M/ref=pd_bxgy_hi_img_y I'll take my time and hopefully it won't look like a wood filler nightmare.

@The Dude I really am proud of the speaker holes as weird as that sounds. But that was what I took my time on. And I just need to do that for the project. Take my time and put it aside if it starts to take over. I didn't do that with the CP. I think that took me a total of 4 hours and it definitely shows. With everything else I took my time, measured twice cut once, and it came together nicely.
What I have also learned is that is seems most of everyone is putting their cabinets together in a day. This. isn't. true. I went back and looked at projects and their timestamps. I was amazed to see how much time had passed between peoples first post and their final posts. Some had two year spans. Again that was just me being hasteful and thinking this would be a snap.
@AJ Thanks for the Disney motivation.

The only thing I really find hard about the weecade is the space. Which you can see by the pictures below.
I did the CP too quick and ran into problems. 1/4 inch on either side problems.
Again thanks for the motivation. I'll be back at it tonight with a fresh start and I will rework the thread to be more of an introduction and less of a "WAAAAAAAHHHHHbulance" thread.