VGA connectors have 15 pins, only 6 are critical. Google "VGA pinout" and find out which pins you broke.
60Hz is the vertical scan rate (refresh rate), we're talking about the horizontal scan rate. What MonMotha is saying is that your monitor only accepts resolutions with a horizontal scan rate of 15kHz (15,000Hz, k means 1,000), meaning 480i or ~240p. If you haven't made any changes to the PC, it's putting out at least 31kHz.
If you want to get this monitor working with a PC, yes you'll probably need a Soft15kHz compatible card.
You'll need do some learning to be able to set this stuff up though.
Take a look at the second link in my signature, and start reading there. It's all about outputting the resolutions you need from a PC and setting up MAME for all this. It talks about using a 15kHz TV, but it will all apply exactly the same to a 15kHz monitor like yours. Just ignore the part about a VGA/RGB to component transcoder. You don't need that, as your monitor will accept VGA from the computer directly.