Sony has squandered so many opportunities in the last decade.
You're a little off on your assessment of how Sony's running it's business. I'm not sticking up for them, but you do need to have your facts straight. To explain further:
Why license music from other labels for a game when you own your own record label?!?!
That might make sense if Sony was the sole publisher of their games, but that's not the case. Many publishers (EA, Activistion, etc.) release the same game across multiple consoles (specifically, the XBox 360), so only using Sony's catalog would be moot.
But even if that wasn't the case, what fun would Rock Band, etc. be if you only had choice of songs from Sony's catalog? The success of these games can be partially attributed to its wide variety of licensed music. Oh and you can wave goodbye to Beatles Rock Band too...
Think of all the Sony Pictures Films that could have had games come out exclusively for PS3 and didn't.
I guess you haven't been paying attention to the game industry but games based on movies are often terrible. Yes, you can say "Goldeneye" for the N64 or "The Warriors" for PS2 but then I'll just rebut with "Enter The Matrix" (merely okay but rushed) or "E.T." (partially responsible for destroying the video game industry in 1983). Or how about half of Acclaim's output since the NES. Or...
just read through this page.
They just plod along, doing just enough to keep the peoples hype up.
What else would you like them to do? Come over and give you a back massage while you're playing Mass Effect 2? You already said you want limited music and crappy licensed games but the game makers are steering away from that considering us gamers have gotten wise to that cost-cutting crap. There's no successor in sight for Sony's PS3 (this would typically be the year for the new generation's hardware to come out). So as of right now, it's either enjoy what they have to offer, or see what MS or Nintendo is serving up.
The whole hacking fiasco is terrible and people are going to lose their jobs over this (maybe) and customers are going to go elsewhere, but I feel like you're just making up reasons to be mad at them now. But in all fairness, your have a right to base your buying decisions on whatever criteria you choose to follow. Or maybe just stick to PC gaming. Less drama and more of the games you might enjoy - like
Big Rigs: Over the Road Racing.
By the way, one final point:
Sony has squandered so many opportunities in the last decade.
Sony's PS2 became the best-selling system of all-time in the past decade (toppling the original record holder, the NES). I don't think they were worried about any lost opportunities. :-)
(P.S. I'm not a fanboy but I totally just sounded like one...)