Whats the easy way to attached teh wires to the bare pins on the MoBo for this sort of hook up and any do's\don't would be great too. I dont want to end up frying the MoBo because i miswire the thing, lol.
The pin spacings on those pins are standard - you can pick up a spare connector somewhere that will snap right on. Easiest thing to get might be a cdrom audio cable, and just use two of the wires.
If you use a pin or tiny screwdriver, the wires and contacts can be removed from cdrom audio and similar connectors - the quick connects for pushbuttons could be crimped right to the other end of those, no soldering at all.
oh, and the pc power button is just a momentary contact switch. Identical to pushbuttons. pc power switch is closed when button is pressed.