that wasnt bitching, thats just all i have left to do. Back to my ?, the problem is that I am using a dell gx260 and it doesnt have wires going to it. It has a little circuit board with a button connected by a ribbon cable to another circuit board that has a headphone jack and a usb port on it that is then connected to the MB.
Just a tip here for folks asking questions; POST PHOTOS! It's likely to result in a quicker answer.
To be brutally honest, if folks who are describing a situation don't have the ability to understand the issue they are having the problem with, they very probably also don't have the ability to accurately describe the situation.
But the "generic" answer is that there has to be a switch there somewhere. Look at the board where the terminals of the switch (or the other board where the wires terminate) and duplicate that connection with a switch routed to your cabinet back panel.
Photos are required for anything more specific.
RandyT