If you can't find them, you can always make them yourself. Raised text or markings on the heads can be removed by putting the bolt in a drill like you would a drill bit, and spin the head against sandpaper. Start with course sandpaper and then go finer until you get the smoothness you want.
Black oxide is also known as "bluing" (mainly in the gun industry), and there are a couple of ways of accomplishing that. The easiest way to do it yourself is to get some "cold blue" like is used for touching up the blued finish on a gun. The best cold blue solution is Oxpho-Blue from Brownell's -
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Hot salt blue is more durable and is the way it is done professionally. This isn't very practical to set up at home, but a local gunsmith may be willing to drop some bolts in the tank for you while bluing a gun or something.
Bluing/black oxide takes on the smoothness of the metal it is applied too, so you can control what it will look like by prepping the metal. You can get anything from a deep polished shine to a course matte black finish. For bolts, I think somewhere in between looks right, i.e., a satin black finish. Satin black is how most factory black oxide bolts that came on arcade machines were.