Anybody whos in the hobby for long really should have a digital caliper and a digikey catalog.
this way you can measure your connector, pin spacing, pin size, etc, figure out what kind of animal you have, and order it.
i wouldnt tear up any board just for the connector, unless someone sat on it and cracked it in half.
I remember when i first got into this i used to blindly order stuff from digikey. and then when it got here i wondered why it didnt work.
But, but.. I ordered a 36 pin card edge connector.
Sorry pal, wrong pin spacing.
but anyways, hope this helps.