Hi,
I know this is a slightly old thread, but I do know of a product that will work with electronic coin acceptors/bill validators with mame because I wrote the software for it (and specifically with MAME in mind!).
The interface can be supplied to work with ccTalk, SSP or Pulse devices and appears as a USB HID keyboard. The interface can be configured to select what key is output when a credit is accepted, and coins/notes can be configured for partial, full or multiple credits. (i.e the interface will totalise and will only output a keystroke when the total exceeds the credit value, so you can set up how much a credit actually costs).
The ccTalk version can connect to multiple devices at once, so you can connect a bill validator and coin acceptor to the same interface.
I'm not sure of the rules here regarding linking to the product in question, so I won't provide a link.
It's been a long time since I've been here, it must be at least 6 years since I built my arcade controller (with a friend), brings back memories of standing in the car park of B&Q because the MDF wouldn't fit inside my mates car!