Well, just for everyone's info, I ended up picking up all the components the weekend.
I had a pile of gift certs to frys so I went that way instead of newegg. However, looks like the prices were within 5-10$ so there wasn't any great deals either way.
I ended up going with AMD. Never used them before so we'll see.
Mobo M3N78-VM
Processor AMD athlon 5050e x2 64 (slightly slower at 2.6ghz, but a lot less power draw (45watts) and it's apparently quite overclockable, though I don't think I'll be going that route for now
2gb ram
1tb Western digital sata HD
One key factor was the onboard graphics. The Mobo has nVidia GeForce 8200, likely not quite as good as the 9300 on that P5N7A, but they were out of that one, and it was about 40$ more anyway.
I already had an old school IR wireless keyboard/mouse (but it was PS2, and this mobo only has 1 ps2 connection, so I scrounged around for a serial header and a 25pin to 9 pin adapter, boy I don't miss the days of serial ports!), but in the end got the keyboard mouse rig operational.
Getting Windows installed was a bear though. I don't have a cdrom to spare, nor a floppy, and I'm not intending on having iether one in this cab anyway, so this was my first foray into setting up a machine entirely via USB stick. Getting it bootable wasn't a prob, but getting that hd partitioned, formatted, making it bootable, etc was a real pain. I learned the hardway that my trusty old copy of Partition Magic won't work with drives that large, it just screws the partition table.
I ended up having to use GPArted, which worked, but only after switching the SATA drive to AHCPI (or whatever, I've probably got that acronym wrong).
I've benchmarked a couple games and so far so good. This machine seems to run neck and neck with the workstation that I've been running on. When I get more benchmarks, i'll post them to my project thread.
It even runs gridwars smoothly full screen with full effects.
I've got 15 days to return it if it doesn't spec out so, better start playing!