my bolts are 5/16, and they are the right length and everything. so i practiced on a scrap piece of wood to see how they work and all that (never used them before). i used first a 5/16 drill bit for the hole, but the bolt wouldnt fit, unless i like hammered it in, so i wet to a larger bit and the bolt fit but was a little loose. anyway, i know im supposed to secure the bolt on the other side with a nut (heh) which are also 5/16, but they dont screw on by hand (all kinds of jokes could be made here) am i supposed to use a wrench or something? and how do i get the bolts to go in? am i correct using a 5/16 drill bit, or should i use the larger one? please help!