It amazes me that a board with helpful and mature members (well, relative to the rest of the internet) still manages to find the handful of posters who think that "everyone's being mean to them - wah!" None of them just stop and notice that perhaps they are either way too sensitive or are the ones causing the problems in the first place.
Never said ALL. Yet another that makes blanket assumptions. And you think this is constructive?
Genesim, does it really affect your day all that much that some other member thousands of miles away typed on a message board? I really don't get it. All that these boards are are exchanges of information, ideas and the occasional opinion. You're not trying to score a prom date here.
It depends. Like with any communication some can make you think about yourself, some can make you think of others. There are alot of ideas here, the problem is that it is marred with personal attacks. Now the ones that aren't causing trouble...I am not speaking about those. As for prom dates...uh I haven't seen any evidence of women at all. So no, that would be pretty futile.
I think, overall, members try to avoid talking down to new members. Understand - answering the same question about "which joystick is best?" and "how many admin buttons should I have?" every other day is pointless when it's been discussed to death in dozens of other threads. And it's not that they're telling them to search because they don't want to answer. It's just that there's tons of information available already to answer the question.
Yeah right. Shall I post some quotes? Or maybe you should use that search function. It shouldn't take you long. As for "its been done to death". So what. If you got time to post a snide comment, you have time to instead answer the question. Never assume that the person should even know where to begin to look. I don't think there are stupid questions when it comes to learning about a hobby. What you get instead are stupid snide answers. Take the time if you got the time. If you don't...how about keeping your yap shut.
Maybe you should READ the threads. Most everyone is helpful. Yet, I don't see you offering advice as you sit there and fault others for the way they're not answering the way you think they should be. It's like you yelling about world hunger after throwing a sandwich you took two bites of into the trash.
Maybe you haven't been reading. I have given out alot of advice, and I have answered to the best of my ability. I am not exactly a green horn with arcades, and perhaps again you need to use that search function. Too busy pointing fingers at me instead of looking at what is actually written.
Yeah, being ignored here won't prevent you from going to his website to purchase items.
True enough, but it isn't encouraging either. Principal. Why would I give money to a man that cannot separate business with pleasure. He expects me to accept that of him?
Where's that guy that talked about buying pot but bought oregano instead? Let's all invite him back to pick on him some more.
Oh, so there are others, I was just guessing. Wasn't too difficult huh.
Genesim - I don't know your age but here's a piece of advice: If what someone wrote on the internet inspires you to write a page-long tirade, the real world will eat you alive. You need to let some things go.
I mean this out of all respect but that has got to be the most devoid of common sense statements I have ever heard. Communication can give inspiration, incite anger, give solace.....etc...
The world will eat me alive.

No, just having fun actually. If you think that I am that fragile, would I have even wrote this to begin with? I would be too busy going postal.
Rest assured I got what I wanted, a reaction. At least someone taking the time to read and make a judgement. You can take it for what you want. Dismiss it as all lies, but rest assured, the next time the behavior happens I am betting that either two things happen.
You applaud it more and pretend that it is ok, or you just might sit back and think. Was this what genesim was talking about? Wow, and I actually said it didn't happen.
Put yourself in the newbie's shoes. I am not new to video games, so I don't consider myself that. Newbie to a M.O.B. of course, but I have seen the little group cliques before. Even at jobs, school...always made me laugh. Being a leader, you have to make judgements. Even if it offends others. My proffesional life...well I may not be the most loved because I do speak the truth, but I do feel pretty proud of my work. There is noone that could dismiss it.
Having worked on some of the most important projects that have ever been laid down(for instance one of the biggest DNA libraries known to the world)....I guess that would be the world eating me alive???...or perhaps me to it. Hey but you inquired.
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TOK,
When you have a problem with nearly everybody, its time to assess yourself.
You will neither heed, or possibly even understand that advice, which is exactly why you get temporary bans, restricted forum functions and have 10 people ignoring you.
Or it could be a MOB mentality.
I was banned from a board at least 8 times. It all happened at the beginning. I have since been a member of that board for over 13 years. The things I said then didn't change one bit. I had a bunch of twits at the time trying to drag me down. I have since become the majority personality to the point of being at the least one of the most respected members of the board.
In time, perhaps at least the same will happen here. That is if I am given a chance. You know why...
I don't care if I am "popular", what is right is right. Assess myself, everyday my friend. But I don't do it with the permission of others. Fanboys and the like do nothing for me. I have no fear of offending someone, I merely speak the truth.