I went parts hunting today.
I came back with half of what I need.
I needed those 3/16ths (.187) female quick connects and radio shack had them but only in combo kits with male/female with 6 of each for like $2.50 so thats a lot of money to waist to get what I needed.
They have a little soldring stand I need to go get though unless somebody can point me to one online cheaper it has the magnifying glass and 2 aligator clamps to hold stuff.
I found that the DB25 stuff is not hard to solder they make connections just for it with hollow metal tubes to solder the wire into, the ones I had seen before and was referring to in previous post were just metal pins.
So Shopping List Today:
Radio Shack
1.) Hook Up Wire (22ga 90ft 3 colors)
2.) 1x DB25 Female Connector with solder points (they only had 1

)
Lowes
1.)A flush trim router bit incase I decide to put plexi over my CP
2.) Crimp Tool
3.) A few bags of screws and some threaded inserts so I can bottom mount the joysticks and not have screws coming out of the top of the CP not sure if they fit yet or if I want to route the CP for a higher up joystick yet.
Monoprice.com
1.) 1 6ft DB25 Male to Male Cable
2.) 2x 3ft DB25 Male to Femail Cable (out of the 3ft Male 2 Male cables)
3.) 2x double male DB25 gender changer adapter (to make the above 2 cables male to male)
4.) 1 4 way DB25 Switch
So what is left...
> Need another female DB25 connector, plan to get it from Digikey but I need to know the part #
> Need Project boxes to build my adapters inside of
> Need the female quick release connectors (lizard lick has them for cheap plan to get those tonight)
> Need the Female DB25 connector w/ Terminal Block for my main source connection
> Need A few terminal blocks
> Need Misc Screws and things
Its costing me way more than a pre-fab X-Arcade but I get some tools out of it, its custom, and it should be a higher quality.
I have enough material done now since I got my drilling done today to start a build thread.