Hehe... yeah, I thought I might throw some people off with the motor mount reference. I'm a mechanic by nature and I was talking about how we used to stiffen up the rubber type engine mounts once they started splitting and such.
We use to get the bigger caulking gun size tubes to fill the motor mounts, but for something like the grommets you would probably only need a small tube to test with.
Like this maybe:
http://www.oreillyauto.com/EW3/gpi?id=1574980575This is more like what we used on the motor mounts:
http://www.oreillyauto.com/EW3/gpi?id=1769083487I know the stuff in the caulking tubes hardens up more like a solid rubber compound.
I'm thinking a thin layer of similar black silicone rubber applied to the old joystick grommets might stiffen them up as well. And another thin layer could be added as needed to make them more stiff. I was going to try it, but just haven't had a chance to pull my joysticks out of the cabinet yet.
Applying a layer in the thinner "flexible" area of the grommet on each side and let it cure real good before re-assembling them.
It's only a theory of mine, like I said I haven't tried it out yet.