Let me guess ... another thread where efjayel is behaving like the freaks in Shardian`s oddballs thread ... where is Hoopz when you need him ?
Sorry, I was teaching at a Leadership Training Camp all week. The 12-18 year old boys I worked with all week wouldn't have made comments like this. I agree with Saint that it's about tact or the lack thereof.
Efjayel, you keep posting about people hating you. You did it in Forum Discussion and mentioned that everywhere you go, you find people end up hating you. Regardless of your perspective on that, you simply must face the fact that you exhibit behaviors that are generally considered unacceptable. Not only do you make a derogatory comment about someone's wife, you defend it without attempting to understand why you should apologize.
It's not like we don't understand your intent (which was that the pictures showed "differences" in her physical features that you simply wanted to comment about. However, you came across as an ass and people called you on it. It's not about being right (or in this case, being wrong) but about tact. You could have easily said something like "Funny observation: she is quite thin/attractive, but her pose and acting in the first picture makes her look different than the others" Instead, you came off like a jerk.
You've done it before and think it's everyone else's fault which is incorrect. You also
refuse to use the @(#$&@#(&$ search button and have been called on it numerous times. As a part of a bigger community, you need to understand that you have rights here just like all the rest of us. You also have responsibilities which you fail to live up to sometimes. Assess first what you can change then assess where you fit in here.
Sorry for the length of my rant. This one really pisses me off.
On a side note, and a more positive one; Chazz, how many times has she given you the look in the last picture with her hands on her hips knowing that she is totally pissed at you?

I wouldn't want to get that look very often, though she is cute like that too.
