Just curious, what PQ issues have you read about with the Betson? I have one and it's great except for some minor 'squishing' around the far edges at certain resolutions. Also, the Nieman's trisync does auto-switch, but the picture will need to be manually adjusted with pots every time, making it less than desirable for emulation.
It is true that the vast majority of arcade games runs at CGA resolution, but you have to consider that many of those are vertical games (ie CGA monitor rotated 90 degrees). When I had my CGA monitor installed horizontally, I found it to be EXCELLENT for probably about 80-90% of games. Vertical games of 256 lines and less looked great on it. But I had problems with the 288 and above games (pacman, galaga, newer 320 line vertical shooters, etc) though. You either have to turn on hardware stretching for these, have part of the top/bottom of the picture cut off, or adjust your vertical size down which leaves big black bars for the horizontal games. Also, in case you didn't know, you can run 640x480 interlaced on any arcade monitor. And just to clear it up, a regular CGA monitor can't switch to EGA resolutions (it has to be a multisync).
In short, if you are at all concerned about authenticity, I would either get a CGA only or multisync monitor before I would consider a VGA only one. I'm also not sure why you are thinking the VGA monitors are more reliable than others.