Use the monitor. Learning games (especially as she learns to read better) will look crappy on the TV, the fonts will be too blurry. Windows has an auto-play feature for music CD & DVD's that when you put a DVD in the drive it will launch a media player of your choice, the only problem is some commercial DVD's come with their own media player and an installer will launch when you insert one of them. You can use their media player which is usually lousy (sometimes plays the movie in a small window surrounded by advertising, etc), or you can cancel the installer and play the DVD manually. If you have a large hard drive, you can also rip the DVD to the hard drive, and set it up to play from your front end software, which may be the easiest way for your daughter as she can select games as well as moves from the same interface.