Thank you, all, so far.
DeadK: yeah, I thought they were technically the same, so it must be their size - cos I thought of inserting a piece of something in-between, but the standard HAPP button is butt-up against the switch trigger - hence it's a matter of the switch design.
Level42: I don't like the idea of leaves for a few reasons.
WAIT. I could make an optical button that would have like NO fu&*#% travel and the mother would NEVER WEAR OUT. Not only that, but the switches could then be much much smaller. I'm not implying I'm clever or anything, just that I have good ideas.
In the mean time, I'll look into the Sanwa. Also, I contacted Cherry and they said check out their DB series. Anyone on that?