Heh heh heh. No, I wasn't the first to go off point. I was just the first to be serious rather than jocular about it. I know what you mean about the 'making worse'; it really upsets people. But, as other things with others, it's an habitual way of explaining. That it doesn't succeed is something else, altogether. (Black humour in that, there is.) In any case, regardless of any possible further response of others, I'll canc my own, here.